Americans of Reddit, Isn’t there a dichotomy between racism/homophobia in the South and Southern Hospitality? Where does Southern Hospitality come from?

It’s hard for me to say. Especially nowadays, America is so diverse across entire areas, that it’s night and day even an hour away. Where I live, it’s technically the south, but “southern hospitality” basically doesn’t exist, and racism is only really prevalent (not really super common, but more common than elsewhere) in the police force. I only head of people being discriminated against during traffic stops