if you never cheat on your husband despite having the opportunity, are you a better person than someone who never cheats but never had the opportunity in the first place?

It’s in the heart, not even just the actions: If I don’t cheat on my wife hooray me I guess, but what if I just longed to sleep with the neighbor who was sending signals, but I was too chicken? That doesn’t make me a good person, it makes me a scared one.