I might as well kick off.
I realised when I had dedicated myself to learning the drums, lessons and everything. I ask for a drum kit for Christmas and didn’t get one. My brother starts a band, and doesn’t even play the drums… gets a drum kit the next Christmas. My mum even told me to not be upset about it.
My brother is an excellent vocalist, and I refuse to blame him for my parents toxic behaviour. His band is awesome.